As a black man who didn’t grow up with a father, I’m a better father and a more successful man today because of him not being there for me.
Is it the lack of father figure affecting the black community or mothers putting their daughter’s education over their sons own? As a black man who didn’t grow up with a father, I’m a better father and a more successful man today because of him not being there for me. But like many other black men, I was raised by a mother who put her daughter’s educations first over mine, so I had to struggle to be where I am today. My mother would take the money I had to go to school and give it to my sisters for them to go to school, while I stayed home. It is also very common for a lot of young black boys to work and send their sisters to college while they stay uneducated. All of these are common everyday practice in many black societies, which lead to many black men being uneducated. So I just want everyone to know that a lack of father figure doesn’t make a boy unsuccessful because not every father is good. But when you have mothers who put their daughters education over their sons own, it will create a society with more educated and successful women than men, which comes back to affect the women when they seek an equally educated and successful man to marry in the future.
How can someone love themselves and their race, while loving their enemies who hate them and cause them to suffer every day?
While it’s understandable for black women to love an individual white man who treat them good. But to say you love white men in general, and how they are a great race of men, which include the racist ones and those ones who are causing you and your race suffer every day. Doesn’t that make you a self-hater? How can someone love themselves and their race, while loving their enemies who hate them and cause them to suffer every day?
This is also the reason why black men don’t respect black women. They see white men treating you black women like garbage every day, yet you still submit to them, so they now start to follow the white man footstep.
(1) When you marry a white man, you won’t be able to fight against the wrongs white people are doing to black people, out of fear of hurting your white partner and his family feelings. So most black women have to accept white oppression when they marry a white man. (2) Colorism. Have you notice most black females in the media don’t look anything like a real black African woman? That’s what happen when you mix with your own oppressors. Where do you think colorism is coming from? The white own media keep promoting mix black women as superior to none mix ones. So why would a smart black woman want to have babies with a white man knowing the negative side effect it will come with for them and fellow black women? (3) If white men can mistreat you black women for hundreds of years to this very day, yet you still love, date, marry and have sex with them without demanding that they first respect you and treat you as equal to white women. Why would they ever change and start respecting you? When they can always treat you like garbage every day and you will still have sex with them and marry them whenever they want you? This is also the reason why black men don’t respect black women. They see white men treating you black women like garbage every day, yet you still submit to them, so they now start to follow the white man footstep.
How can black women complain about black men not treating them good, while promoting and having relationship with white men who treat them worst? Don’t that make them look like hypocrites?
Black women complain every day about Black men mistreating them, yet promoting and having relationship with white men who mistreat them even more. White men have been mistreating black women from the first time they came in contact with them in Africa, to this very day. Whether it wants to be “Racism” where white men discriminate against them and degrade them every day. “Injustice” where the white man commits crime against them and get away or incarcerating them at a higher rate than other females. “Inequality” where the white man prevent the black woman from having full access to all the opportunities white women have full access to, also paying them less than white women for an equal days work. Millions of black women worldwide has lost their lives because of the white man, and millions worldwide are still suffering every day because of the white man. Because of the white man degradation of black women and practicing of colorism, classifying black women as ugly and inferior to white women and every other race of women, including their mix daughters they have with black women. Black women are discriminated against by men of every race for relationship and portrayed as less beautiful and feminine as other race of women. So as you can see, black women are faced with many different difficulties in their every day life all thanks to the white man. So how can black women complain about black men not treating them good, while promoting and having relationship with white men who treat them worst? Don’t that make them look like hypocrites? How can a woman leave an abusive man to marry a man who abuse her even more, yet claim she wants to be treated good? Where is the sense in that? These are the reasons why life will never get better for black women, because if they truly wanted to be treated good, they would fight against every race of men who mistreat them instead of only black men.